Now I know my ABCs

Hi Sidra,

It’s been too long since the last post. You’ve been doing some amazing things. We think they are amazing but they might be pretty normal for someone your age. In any case, some of the things you do seem like you are ahead of your time.

For instance, you know your ABCs. Well, actually you know A, B and C. We have alphabet magnets on the refrigerator and when we ask you to get the letter A and bring it to us you can do it. You can also do it with B and C. Yesterday I asked you if you could bring me the letter D. You brought me 3 letters, but one of them was D.

You are getting pretty good with sign language, too. Some of the signs you know really well, and others you haven’t caught on to. But you are getting better at using them in the right context. I’m trying to get you on video doing some of the signs, but it might take a while to get some good, edited video of it.

Another thing I want to get a recording of is you making your ‘happy song’ while eating. I remember being teased about doing this when I was about six years old. Maybe you won’t keep doing it that long. I think it might be something you inherited from me. This morning you were sitting on my lap trading spoonfuls of cherrios with me and singing really loudly. It was a hoot.

Your speed is increasing, too. You almost always run (although I will say that running for you right now doesn’t mean full strides) instead of walking. I love the pitter patter sound you make when you are ‘running’ this way.

You also like to climb. You can see that in a couple of the pictures. You are moved to try climbing on just about anything, and that makes you a bit of a daredevil. Which brings to mind an incident from a couple of weeks ago. You were jumping on the couch. I was sitting on the couch as your spotter. You bounced toward the end of the couch and when you got there you backed into the arm of the couch and started a backflip over it. I caught you by the ankle in time to keep you from landing on your head on the hardwood floor. You might have gotten a little bit of whiplash when I pulled you back up, but it was better than landing headfirst on the floor.

AND, you’ve tinkled in your potty twice already. I think we lucked out by giving you a chance to do it right before the shower or the bath. Your first time was Thursday night and you did it again on Saturday night. We don’t think you’re going to be finished with diapers next week or anything, but it was pretty exciting.

I am really looking forward to this summer when I get to spend a lot of time with you. Both of us are going to learn a lot and have a good time doing it.

Love, aba

Tuesday Club

Sidra,

You probably won’t get to be part of a true Tuesday Club gathering because of your age but yesterday you got a taste of what it might be like. Actually, you got to be the only attendee at this meeting and thus got all the attention. I guess I should first tell some history about the Tuesday club, and I welcome any corrections to my account.

Maybe ten years ago or so, my mother, your grandmother was puzzling about how she could manage the requests of her children to supervise their kids (her grandkids) during the summer months. She came up with the idea that she would entertain all of the grandkids on Tuesdays. So, Tuesday club was born. But my mother, whose life’s work has been in public education didn’t just put out a couple of snacks and provide a yard to play in. The club eventually had a song and some secret signs. The club took field trips and had other activities. My mom planned lessons for each grandkid specific to them, their ages ranging over about 10 years. There was even sports instruction handled by my dad.

So yesterday you were treated to an afternoon with my mom. I brought you there and then took my bike out for a ride. My mom showed her expertise right away by diverting you from potential disappointment when I left by quickly changing your focus. Then you got to read all the books my mom had pulled out for you, play with toys and puzzles, and even a had a mini field trip to see your cousin’s baby lamb.

So, I just wanted you to know how lucky you are to have my mom as your grandma. I hope you get to tell her yourself some day.

Love, aba

Spring Break 08

Hi Sidra,

It’s been too long since the last post. I’m rally behind. I am on spring break right now, so I haven’t been working everyday so that excuse is gone. But, not working has allowed you and I to hang out a lot this week. You continually amaze your mom and I. You are going to be 15 months old in two days. You are a real chow hound, eating everything we eat (that we let you eat) and some ‘baby’ food too.

You continue to enjoy being read to, and you have some favorite books. We haven’t been reading (singing) Snuggle Puppy too much lately, but I hope we can get that on video before you grow out of it. While I am sitting on the floor singing to you, you lean on my shoulder and drink it in. Those are some real special moments. I guess the books you like best are Color Farm, Good Night Moon, Good Night Gorilla, and Runaway Bunny. But that could change next week.

Another thing that is really cool is that you seem to be able to identify most of your books. For instance, we can ask you to pick a certain book out of the basket or off the shelf, and you can find the right one. I am impressed that you can get the right one off the shelf when only the bindings are visible.

We’ve been having some difficulties with the video devices lately but I do have a good clip of you on your slide without a spotter that shows off your athletic ability. You really enjoy climbing on anything but the slide gives the reward of a fun descent after you’ve been to the top. You seemed to quickly learn how to swing your leg over the top nicely.

The earlier posts show some pictures of you in the snow this winter, well, it’s past the spring equinox and we have snow on the ground here again this morning.

The tooth count right now is 10. You have four on top front, two front bottom and four molars, one each side top and bottom. The molars seem really sharp, I guess they haven’t had a chance to get worn down.

Here is the video of you sliding. In the photo above, you are sitting in one of your toy baskets playing (well at least blowing through) the recorder.

Love, aba

MORE VIDEOS ADDED!!!

commentary

Hi Sidra,

Really this post is more for the other readers than for you. I wanted to let them know that they can post comments here, too. At the bottom of each post there is a link to click on if you want to leave a comment. The comments won’t appear automatically. I have to approve them before they will be posted. So, there will be a delay until I sign on and see that there are comments to be moderated.

Also, we had a day off of school today because the power was out at the school. But the power was on your hair! You were sliding on your slide and the static electricity was making your hair stand up. So I took a cute picture of you.

Love, aba

Tiny Dancer

Hi Sidra,

The purpose of this post is to introduce Sidra the dancer to the outside world. You have a unique set of moves that might be rooted in your babysitter’s ballet moves, but in any case are quite riveting. Your song of choice is ‘bling blang’ by Arlo Guthrie. You just sort of started steppin’ out to the song when your mom played it. Anyway, the video is here.

There is also a couple of pictures of you taken today in the snow that fell at our house. You are in your snowsuit and near the snowman we made. Actually, your mom made it while we watched.

I should also report that for the last few nights you’ve been able to pick one of your favorite books off the shelf on demand. That is, when we ask you to get ‘snuggle puppy’ off the shelf you can pick it from the twenty or so books that are on that shelf.

Love, aba

Tiny Dancer on Google

Chow Hound

Hi Sidra,
You are a chow hound! You can put away a ton of food for someone who only weighs a little over 20 pounds. I am amazed that you can eat so much. The doctor told us you would start eating a lot more after you passed a year old. He was right! Here's a typical day of eating for you:
Breakfast-- Oatmeal with milk and a banana. I mean a whole banana, too. I have stopped trying to fit your portion in a kids bowl. I use the adult one.
Lunch-- Sweet Potatoes with carrots, rice, or some other veggie. Again, adult size bowl.
Dinner-- Lately has been whatever we are eating, Lasagne, chicken with stir fry vegetables, pizza.
Dessert-- Applesauce, a baby YUM YUM (a crunchy sort of cracker there), animal crackers. Yogurt (Yo Baby).
Snacks-- String cheese, Goldfish crackers, Wheat thins, Pita Chips, Rice cakes, Kix or cheerios.

There is a tall chair I sit in next to the kitchen counter where I sit while I am eating or snacking. When I sit there, you are keenly interested in what I might be eating so you always come over and ask to sit in my lap(by holding your hands high and yelling). I usually let you have some of what I'm having.

I also just recorded a sound file that is me humming the lullaby that i've used when rocking you to sleep. I tried to post it here but it didn't work. Maybe I can figure that out and get it connected here soon.

Love, aba

You Say it's your Birthday!

Sidra,

It is time to report on your first year with us. Well, mostly I am going to tell about your birthday. We had a party for you and you got a lot of gifts but you were the only one your age in attendance. You also got to have your way with a piece of the birthday cake. That’s what is in the picture.

It’s hard to believe it’s already been a year since you were born. But then again, you have changed so much in that year it’s just amazing. I remember being amazed at how you appeared so quickly that day (well what should I expect, it was a C section delivery) and how things changed so dramatically for you that day. One minute you are inside your mother breathing fluid, and the next minute you’re out on your own breathing air. Looking at pictures of you from those first few days, I can’t believe you were ever that small.

For the record, you now weigh about 21 pounds and are about 28½ inches tall. That means that in a year you’ve grown about 9 inches and gained about 13 pounds. It’s hard to say really how much taller you are, because you weren’t able to stand up a year ago so you had to be measured laying down. Anyway you have increased your height by about 50% and your weight by about 160%. I am going out on a limb and say that you will probably not have any other years of growth more dramatic than that the rest of your life.

As I write this it is New Year’s Day 2008 and you are still asleep at 8:48am. You usually sleep pretty well. You went to bed about 11:00pm last night, although you didn’t go right to sleep. Your routine now is to take one long or two shorter naps each day. You usually wake up in a pretty good mood though not always. And you are usually not testy about being put to bed. Well we were going to take you skiing again today, but your mom isn’t feeling well, so we will be staying home.

I have had a super time on this vacation for the last 16 days because I’ve been able to hang out with you a lot. Alas, I return to a regular work schedule tomorrow morning. Early.

You will be awake soon, so I am off to get ready to dress you in day clothes and feed you breakfast.

Love, aba

First Day of Skiing

Sidra,

On December 25^th we took you up to the mountain for your first time in the snow. Actually, you weren’t in the snow that much but your mom and I went for a play day on the mountain and we took you along. You have ridden in the bike trailer a lot already, and this time you rode in it while I cross country skied. The bike trailer can be used for skiing with some keen attachments.

So you were all bundled up in your snow suit with two pairs of tights and a jacket underneath. It was a pretty cold day but not snowing or blowing. We dropped your mom and Jen off at Timberline where they went skiing/snowboarding on the lifts there. Then you and I went down to the Trillium snow park to do our thing. You were a trooper as we went around the Trillium lake loop. As we went down the first pitch I said “whee” and told you that would be the most exciting part of the ride for you. I tried to sing to you when I wasn’t too out of breath but I’m not sure you could hear me. Then after a half hour or so you were asleep so I stopped singing. It took about an hour to finish the loop.

When we got back up to where the car was I took you out of the trailer and let you stand in the snow. You are used to surfaces that are completely flat and the snowsuit doesn’t really have booties for walking in. So I am explaining why you didn’t stay on your feet very long. But you looked like you were going to try getting up so I thought I would let you do it yourself and busied myself with taking apart the trailer to put it back in the car. Soon you started crying. When I picked you up I realized that your hands had slipped out of the snowsuit gloves and you were bare handed against the cold hard snowy ground. When I got you fully upright I saw that you had had your face against the snow, too. You weren’t very happy. It took you quite a while to get over that one.

The picture here was taken just before you had your face plant and lost your temper.

It was great fun. I can’t wait until you can ski along with me.

Love, aba

Giving the Sign

Sidra,
I can't remember if I've mentioned it before, but we've been trying to teach you sign language since you were about 4 or 5 months old. You've been watching videos called 'signing times' probably 5 times a week since then. Also, we try to show you the signs as often as we can ourselves. The idea is that you will be able to clearly communicate with us by sign before your speech abilities will allow you to talk with us. In addition, you should be a better communicator with speech once you are capable.
Anyway, I think you are beginning to finally give your first signs. Yesterday, I think you gave the sign for eating, indicating that you were hungry. We've also noticed that you're giving a sign that is like 'thank you' to us when we give it to you. Like when we ask you to bring us something and we say thank you in word and sign, and you say thank you (we think) back. We've been watching you pretty carefully because we know that when you give the signs it will probably not be a textbook performance but your own version or dialect.
We're pretty excited about it and when you start doing it regularly we will get some pictures or videos posted so you can see.
On a another note, I am continually amazed at the devotion you show me while also being very comfortable with strangers.
Only 5 days until your first birthday! Uncle Ben will be here tomorrow. The picture here is the one we sent out as our holiday greeting to everyone.
'til next time....
love, aba

Making the Jump to Lightspeed

Sidra,
you have been going into hyperdrive. By the time you are old enough to read this that will be a dated (well it is already dated) reference to Star Wars, where the space ships accelerate up to lightspeed with all the stars rushing by the ship in streaks of light. Anyway, I put together a video of you walking (you just snuck your hand up here and got in a few keystrokes of your own) when you were just starting and just recently. I guess you've been walking for over a month and you have really sped up which is why I mentioned the jump to lightspeed.
So the video is mostly at double speed so that you can see about six minutes of action in about three minutes.
In the process of making the video I finally had to succumb to the time sensitive nature of the project. You kept improving daily so using the logic that 'I can get her to do a better stunt tomorrow' would put the finished product off indefinitely. You can see that in the earlier scenes you hold your hands up by your head while walking and in the later ones your hands are at your sides, mostly.
There are two opportunities to see the video, either with the link or in the video player. You might get a bigger view window with the link.
Enjoy, love, aba

She's going Mobile

Almost a Year

Sidra,
Time has passed quickly since you were born. Even now, I see pictures of you a few months ago and you seem to have changed so much. I guess it's hard to notice day to day changes but if you look back only a month things seem so much different for you already. I suppose that for us this will be the most exciting part of your childhood because you are going to change so fast. You've already progressed from a few halting steps at a time to confident striding wherever you want to go. The crawling disappeared this week. Soon you will be running and going on a scooter.
Anyway, the thing I really wanted to write about is how you make me feel. When I come home, whether it has been two days or two hours, you come to greet me. Every time, it makes my heart swell. It swells a little bit each time you show interest in doing something with me, even if it is only taking a walk down the hall to a different room. Maybe it's because it's hard for me to compete with your mom because the two of you at this stage in your life (and probably for most stages of your life) have a really tight bond to each other. So, any time that I get to have your attention I feel a warm glow.
I recently read a book that said since God can't command children to love their parents they are commanded to honor them instead. I guess I am grateful that at least for the moment you show me affection and I hope that doesn't fade.
I didn't put any new pictures up, but I've discovered I can put in a link to one of your videos, so here it is.

sidra video

Love, aba

Ambulatory

Sidra,
It's been too long since the last post. You have changed a lot in the last couple of months. I've kind of been waiting until you are walking to do the next post, so now is the time. I debated for a while about what "walking" means. I think you have reached the standard now. I wondered if we should say you were walking when you could take a couple of steps from one of us to the other. Or a couple of steps between the table and the couch. I decided that wasn't really walking because you could probably take one step and catch yourself to cross those small divides. I also wondered if the standard should be that you would walk anywhere you wanted to go untethered by any support. I decided that that was too strong of a standard. So, where you are now is that you often decide on your own that you will take a few unsupported steps to go six feet or so, or with encouragement from your parents walk from one of us to the other when we are six to eight feet away. We have video to prove that. However, you also often choose to get places by crawling if it is a long way, or take a couple steps upright and then sit down and crawl the rest of the way.
So, let the record show that you are a walker at about 10½ months of age. I guess that makes you slightly advanced in that skill. You are daily making progress in other areas, too. We've been showing you sign language both ourselves and by a video for a long time, and you haven't really done any signs back to us yet. Although, you have waved to us once and a while recently. I guess that is a sort of a sign, but not any of the 'official' ones we've been trying to teach you. We've tried to teach you to put the ring on the peg, put the balls back in the right slot, turn the right button to make the little man pop up, put the triangle in the right hole, etc. You are showing some signs that you are catching on to a lot of those things, too.
You also have made music by blowing the recorder and hitting the piano keys. You still are trying to play the harmonica like a kazoo, by humming into it but that is closer than you were a month ago. You have sucked water from a straw but you are more likely to blow bubbles with it than use it for drinking.
And you have teeth! You have two little ones poking out on the bottom front that we see all the time and the top front ones are just breaking through. You really don't like to have them brushed, though. You're going to have to get over that. At your last checkup you were 18 pounds 4 ounces. You sure seem like more than that, wearing out my arms when I am carrying you. Your weight was under the average for your age at that time but you still have plenty of baby fat, chubby cheeks, and a big tummy so we aren't worried that you're too thin.
Now I'm your dad and I think you're just the prettiest girl on the planet but I am still amazed at how you charm other people. People who've never met you are constantly approaching us and saying how cute you are. I suppose that happens to a lot of parents of kids your age, but it seems like a high percentage of people are taken by you.
The pictures in this post are as follows: 1) your mom took this one of your bubble bath in the kitchen sink. 2) Your mom took this also, you showing off your hairdo and tongue tricks that your dad can't do. 3) This one was taken by Nancy at the Community center, showing the ends of the age spectrum each with their own walking assistance. 4) Well, you are a ham and apparently you like to bathe. 5) We took this today of you walking across the kitchen.
It's hard to keep up with all your accomplishments. You do something new everyday. That's why this is such a special time. Not that we will regret any of our time with you. But right now your changes are rapid and we've got to pay close attention or we will miss something.
Love, aba

Another Milestone

Hey Sidra,
Tomorrow you will be 9 months old. But today, your brother would have been 2 years old. So while we are interested in your milestone, today we are thinking a lot about your brother.

A year ago when I started this blog I told you about how we had begun a charity event in your brother's name. I said we had been taking the socks with his name on them with us to various places so we could feel his presence with us. That's why I am including more pictures of it in places we visited. One is you in your stroller outside Fenway Park in Boston. You and I were waiting for your mom and uncle Ben on Yawkey Way just outside the ballpark. They were inside the souvenir shop. The other is at Lexington green. Lexington is an important site in American History. A military band was doing a photo shoot at the statue when I was there.

Today we are going to do the same things we did last year on Noah's birthday, except this year you will be with us and Parker won't be.
I brought 3 stones from Pollalie trailhead where I parked my car while I was at work yesterday. We will put them on Noah's grave marker.

We still think about him all the time. I call on his spirit when I am in a difficult situation and he helps me through it. I know that whatever I am suffering it isn't as bad as what he endured. I still think of him every day. I was just thinking yesterday that you two would have made a dynamic duo. The energy the two of you would have produced would have been pretty amazing.

Well, you are pitching a bit of fit right now, so I guess I will wrap this up for now.
Love, aba

Crawling!

Hi Sidra,
well it has been just one month since the last post, so I guess it is time for an update. We were thinking that you might not ever crawl, but you did it. You started getting around on your own about 2 weeks ago, and you haven't slowed down since. As you can see, you move so fast it's hard to get a good picture of you doing it.
Since you started crawling, you've also been getting a lot better at moving around stuff on your own. That includes getting better at pulling yourself up from sitting to standing. Your mom and I are going to have our hands full keeping you out of dangerous stuff for a while. You like to check out anything that you haven'
t had a hold of before, and that includes a lot of stuff.
It's getting cooler out now, so it looks like you might not be swimming for a while. We might take you to an indoor pool sometime, but for now swimming is a low priority.
You have been getting a little better at sleeping all night. We have been trying to feed you plenty in the evenings so you won't wake up hungry. It's working slowly. You are beginning to eat a lot more. We have given you a few things to eat on your own, that is, to pick up and feed yourself. You seem to only be getting about half the cheerios you pick up into your mouth.
You are definitely not an early teether. You are getting close to 9 months old and we haven't seen any teeth yet.
I have been back at school for about a month, and that means that I haven't been seeing you as much. This past week was the first that you were watched by Claire, your mom's good friend, while your mom was at work. I have to admit I thought of you two having that time together and was a little jealous. It has made me cherish the weekends with the family much more.
That's all for now,
Love, aba
video at:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-5500708266811192747&hl=en

East Coast Trip

Hi Sidra,
Well we just returned from a two week trip to the East Coast. That's four legs of airplane rides. We went first to Dallas, TX which took about 4 hours. Then the second leg was from Dallas to Boston and it took about 4 hours also. On the return trip we did the same thing except backwards. You did pretty well both coming and going. You didn't sleep as much as you would have if you weren't flying on the plane, or eat as much, but you didn't fuss too much, either. From Dallas to Boston on the trip out the flight attendants rearranged some passengers seating so that we got an extra seat for you. That made that part of the trip a lot nicer. Near that end of that flight the flight attendant asked if she could hold you and then paraded you up and down the full length of the plane. They also brought you a pair of wings since you were on your first airplane trip. On the flights home, you were showing off your walking legs by going up and down the aisle of the plane supported by me. I couldn't see your face but your mom says you were charming the passengers as you walked. I don't doubt it, strangers are always taken by you.
The reason for the trip was to visit family on the other side of the country. We stayed with your mom's aunt Deb. Living in the same house is your mom's cousin Dina and her family, husband Timmy, and daughters Mia and Grace. Mia had her sixth birthday the day after we arrived but her mom told us that Mia was more excited about your arrival than her birthday. Deb lives in a 'two family house.' Deb lives on the first floor and Dina's family has the second floor. The third floor and basement are shared areas. We slept on the third floor, which could be kind of hot on warm days.
We also spent a couple of days in Maine in a house rented by your uncle David and his family. The house was on Long Lake. You did some swimming there in your 'floaty' and rode in a motorboat while your mom water skied behind it. Your uncle got you a nice life preserver to wear while you were in the boat. You didn't care for it too much, I think because the vest was necessarily stiff. You took your bath in the kitchen sink and as the picture shows you tried to suck on the faucet. Luckily for us, the bat who lived in the house was evicted before we arrived.
We didn't really stay at his house but a frequent visitor for us was your uncle Ben. He did host Mia's birthday birthday party and dinner one night as well. He came over nearly everyday we were in Boston and entertained you and served as tour guide for the adults. He is shown in one of these photos feeding you.
You did a lot of things while on this trip. I said several times while we were away that the astounding thing to me is that you won't remember any of this when you get older. I guess that's one of the main reasons why I am writing this, so you will know about it. Anyway, probably the most significant thing you did was go to your first Red Sox game as the stadium scoreboard shows. Your uncle David had the good fortune to have the opportunity to rent one of the luxury boxes at famed Fenway Park. It is close to becoming a historic building, built in 1912. It is the oldest ballpark in the major leagues and is the site of some historic happenings in baseball. It might have been more important to me than you as it was my first Red Sox game (in Fenway Park) too. Also, your uncle David's neighbor's son works for the Red Sox and controls the scoreboard displays. So that connection helped get you welcomed to the game on the stadium scoreboard. The bad news is that the Red Sox lost the game, making them 0-3 in games I've attended.
You did a lot of other stuff besides going to the game, too. You rode on the 'T' several times. You visited the New England Aquarium and Faneul Hall. You rode the swan boats in the Boston Common. You visited the 'Make way for Ducklings' statue in the Common and posed for pictures with your aunt and cousins. You went to your cousin's birthday party. You hung out at the trendy Coolidge Corner. You also had many visitors stopping by to see you.
Our meals were fantastic on the trip. Your mom's aunt Deb and your uncle David kept us very well fed. Everything they prepared was excellent, and so was the dinner at your uncle Ben's. I arrived home about 5 pounds over my usual weight, in spite of cycling a lot of miles.
When you got home you became very attached to your playpen. It is a little different than the one you spent time in back east. The side bars are just a little lower and you've discovered that you can reach them from a sitting position and pull yourself up. So for the last two days you've been standing up and sitting down, standing up and sitting down...The only problem is occasionally you fall down onto your back and can't get up. Then you get upset. But while standing on the side you are getting pretty casual about holding on with only one hand, and sometimes letting go completely. Just a minute ago you were on the bed and I was next to you. You used me to get up on your feet, then balanced with one hand, then let go. You stayed up for about a second untethered. You will be walking soon.
Well, the trip was really good for the family. The hosts were very happy to have us and were tickled to get to see you. They know you will be a lot different the next time they see you. Your mom has declared that this was the first of annual trips to the east. That's ok with me, I found some good places to ride my bike and there are tons of other things to do with you there.
Love, aba

Summer

Sidra,
It's been a busy and fast summer for us. It looks like I missed getting a post in here during July. You are now a few days past seven months old. We are beginning to butt heads over a few things. You have figured out how to yell pretty good when you aren't getting your way. It has been a little bit trying for us because you probably don't understand why we aren't picking you up and a holding you sometimes when you've made it clear that's what you want. We're trying to get the point across that you don't get to call all the shots, all the time. For example, you might be upset that you are still in the playpen or play center when you want to be held. We can't get you to understand that we want to pick you up and hold you, but first we need to finish that bowl of cereal, or pick up those toys you were using, or take the garbage out, or change clothes, or something like that.
I can't remember if I've put anything in any of these posts about your toughness, so I will mention it now. You have weathered a number of little tumbles and such without much whimpering. Like today, you got two shots at the doctor's office, and were done crying over it before we left the building. Even though we forgot to give you some tylenol before we went, like we were supposed to. And also today in your little backyard pool you held on to a new position you had learned until your arms gave out. Your determination lasted longer than your muscles. Your mom was also commenting about your 'grunting' when you are frustrated with something. She wondered where you get that trait. I said probably from both of us.
Well, you've had a busy summer, too. We moved into a new house in the first week in july. It was only next door, so the move was for more room. Anyway, you probably didn't get as much attention as you should have from us while we were tearing out carpet, painting, laying hardwood floor, and cleaning the new house. Not to mention packing and then unpacking.
But, you and I have a pretty good routine on some of these summer days. When your mom has to work, we go out for a bike ride (you sleep most of the way). Then when we get home we have lunch. Sometimes there is a disagreement about who should have lunch first. We had that little dispute today. But we settled it. Then you get some playtime in. Next is my favorite part. When you start to get tired, we go into our bed and I read to you until you fall asleep. Sometimes I fall asleep first. Anyway, I hope we continue to do that as you grow older.
Summer seems almost over, because soon we will fly to the east to visit family. Then shortly after we get back I will return to work. We are a little worried about how you will handle the flying. But, we had friend visit just this week and her daughter is just a little older than you. They said that they worried more than they needed to.
The photo captions here are: 1) my two best girls sleeping in, 2) My 7 month old daughter pretending to be a teenager watching tv, 3) The naked napper.
Love, aba

Progress

Hi Sidra,
you have been making some big strides lately. We have been feeding you some solid food lately, and you are getting to like it. Well, I'll say this, the second time we got the spoon out in front of you you knew exactly what to do. You nearly lunged for it. Anyway your first food is rice cereal mixed with your mom's milk. You seem to like it. You are still a pretty messy eater, though. I like to use the bibs with plastic fronts because what drops on the bib can be easily scooped up and returned to your mouth. We tried some sweet potatoes with you yesterday, but I guess you didn't like those as much. I wasn't there to see, so I don't know. We will try those again later today. The trick is to introduce new foods one at a time so we can see if you might be allergic to the new food.

Also, you are getting really good at sitting up on your own. This morning when you woke up from your first nap, I sat you up on the bed and let you have some toys nearby and you stayed sitting and entertained yourself for about 20 minutes. We still don't leave you sitting on your own on hard surfaces, but on the bed we can leave you for a while. You still like standing up a lot. You can't do that on your own yet, but are getting close. I can believe that you will walk before your first birthday, maybe even sooner than that.

You do like the water, too. We took you out for a backyard swim in your little pool the other day. I used the sun to give you a nice warm pool to swim in, and you had a great time. You had trouble sitting on your own because the bottom of the pool was so slick, but you even enjoyed laying down in the water.
love you,
aba

Noahs Quest 2007

Hey Sidra,
We just had the second annual Noah's Quest this last weekend. It's an event your mom and I created to help people remember your brother and also raise awareness of stillbirth and infant loss. It turned out pretty well, we had about the same number of walkers/runners as last year. We had a few problems with the results again, and we will figure out how to fix those problems. You got to participate, too. Your cousin Audrey and her friend Rachel Perry pushed you around the course in the 5km run, using the jogger/trailer that we give you rides in. You wore your Noah's Quest shirt like we did, and were a big part of the day.
One thing that everyone does at Noah's Quest is light a candle for the baby that they lost. We of course lit one for Noah, and I was holding you when I lit one, and told you that I hoped you would light one yourself next year. It was the hardest part of the day for me, holding you in one arm and lighting a candle for your brother with the other. It represented the best and worst events in my life. Your birth and Noah's stillbirth.
At the same time, I felt very proud of your mother and myself for providing this event for others like us. The grief associated with losing a child at birth or shortly after is very misunderstood by those around the parents of the loss. Fortunately we had Pat Schwiebert speak to the group and help explain what parents who have lost kids go through. Not only does Noah's Quest help us remember him, it helps other parents remember their lost children. The way Pat finished her talk was by saying parents of lost children feel "if you ask my child's name, I may cry, but if don't ask about my child, you'll break my heart."
The pictures here were taken by your Uncle David, who came all the way from Boston to attend the event.
You got a little bit sick the night before the event. You woke up about 3:30am with a runny, stuffy nose. Actually, you were still sleeping, but your mom and I were awake worrying about you because your breathing was so noisy. So, it was a hard day for us, but you were great all day in spite of your illness. I am getting the idea that you are going to be a tough little cookie, and will be happy most of the time in spite of what we put you through.
More soon about how you are progressing really fast recently.
Love, aba

Toe Sucker

Hi kid,
Your mom's brother mentioned that the blog hadn't been updated in about a month, so we better put something out this weekend.
You have a talent now that you might not have for much longer. You can get your toes into your mouth, and you don't seem to mind doing it. So, two of these pictures are of you doing that.
Since the last post, we had a fun family weekend in Sunriver. All the aunts and uncles and cousins and grandparents were there. We had a great time and you got a lot of attention.
Also, we did some footage of you sitting up this weekend. I decided I should do it soon because you were getting too good at it and soon you wouldn't doing your funny fallovers anymore. We sit you up on the big bed so you won't hurt yourself when falling. Yesterday we practiced sitting and you started to get it but still were falling quite a bit. Today when I got the video camera you sat up for what seemed like about 2 minutes before going down. You seemed to be about twice as good at keeping your balance as yesterday. So I am glad that I got the video today. Next weekend will probably be too late.
I am only a week and half away from being through with school for the summer, so I will be able to update the blog more often and make more videos of you. We also did video of you in the Johnny Jump up, so that will probably be in the next posted video.
In two weeks will be the second annual Noah's Quest. It's a walk/run event in honor of your brother and other lost children. Your mom and I worked on that this weekend, scouting the new route and making a map. This year you will have your own t shirt, and you will get to do the walk with one (or some!) of your cousins. Today you went with us when we checked out the route, riding in the backpack like on the mother's day hike. This time, we put many layers on you, not wanting to repeat the our mistake. I think you were warm enough. You didn't complain too much, even though our full walk was probably as long as on Mother's day.
Right now you are listening to your mom reading you a book. But I had to interrupt that sentence to get a binky for you because you were 'grunting.'
Ok, that's all for now,
a new post soon!
love, aba

Big Weekend

Sidra,
It was a big weekend of new things for you. First, on Saturday you had your first ride in the trailer behind the bike. I can't tell you how proud I am to be the first to take you on a bike ride. Actually your mom and I both took you, but the trailer was attached to my bike. I'm not sure how much you can see from the trailer, but I could see you inside the trailer if I craned my neck, and I am very excited to be able to take you on short errands by bicycle. I really don't like driving the car unless absolutely necessary and I want you to grow up thinking that the best way to get somewhere is under your own power, instead of riding in a car. So, that was huge. Your mom was riding nearby the trailer, and since she could be alongside you, she could probably see what you were up to a lot better than me.
The second thing was that on Sunday was your first Mother's day. So your mom got to choose the activity for the day. We first went to the Wildwood Cafe near Brightwood for breakfast. I don't know if I should say first, because it was 10:30 when we got there and your mom and I were both very hungry by then. After that we went on a hike on the Salmon River trail. It is a beautiful trail through an old growth forest and along a wild and scenic river. You rode in the backpack which I carried. Hopefully you won't remember too much because you finished the hike in a miserable state. You were both pretty cold and pretty hungry. Also, we hadn't pulled you out of the backpack anywhere on the trip, and you might have been uncomfortable because of that, too. Anyway, you let us know about it for the last 15 minutes of the hike and it took quite a while to get you calmed down when we got back to the car.
I can't finish without saying that my completely biased opinion is that the two gals in the bottom photo must be the most beautiful ladies on the planet.
love, aba

Thumbsucker!

Good Morning Sidra,
A few days ago I gave in. You had been acting like you'd like to suck your thumb since you were born. In fact, you had been seen in sonograms before you were born with your hands in front of your face, and maybe even with a thumb in your mouth. The first week you were born you seemed to try it a couple of times but were easily discouraged. But recently, you really got a hankering for it and started doing it with both your hands.
I fretted over this, hoping that you would use a pacifier instead. So, when you really got a jones on for the thumb, I tried to dissuade you. I quickly realized that I couldn't watch you every second and pull your thumb out and replace it with the pacifier. You were too relentless, you could wait me out and find a way to sneak your thumb in. So, I gave in. I was worried that letting you start the habit would be bad for your teeth and require braces to correct it later on. But I found out that your teeth aren't in Jeopardy until you are about 4 or 5 years old. So, if we can get you to stop by then it will be ok. So, I will not lose any sleep over it now. It is interesting to note that both your mom and I were thumbsuckers as children, too.
Now I think I wrote earlier that you had rolled over, from front to back. You haven't really done it since that one time, so I think it was a fluke. Yesterday, in front of a wide audience of relatives, you rolled three times. I was stunned. But, the couch you were on was slightly slanted. Later in the evening, at home, you couldn't do it again. We've been practicing, so it should be happening soon.
You've been out in the sun lately, as we've had some nice weather. Today is not the day, but a couple of days in the last week have been nice and you've been outside. We like taking you out, but if you ride in the stroller, you fall asleep pretty fast and miss all the sights.
Oops, I almost forgot! We took you swimming at Kahneetah. It's a place in central oregon which has a hot springs and usually drier weather than here. So, you swam in the pool, well, we held you in the water, and we got you a little air mattress like floating device that you were able to lie in by yourself. You didn't protest the water at all. I wouldn't say you are a fish yet, but you seem to be comfortable in water.
That's all for now,
love, aba.

The Doctor

Hi Sidra,
you had another visit to the Doctor today. You got two shots, immunizations, one in each leg. You didn't like it too much, and began screaming immediately. One of the vaccines may give you a fever later on tonight. You took some painkiller before we took you to the doctor, and some more after we got home. Right now you are about an hour and a half into a nap. You seem to be doing OK considering the pain you were obviously in. It's hard on us, because we know that it is going to hurt you to get the injection, but the medicine is important.
You have been very good at sleeping so far. I just talked to my friend who has a son who is about 4 months older than you and he rarely sleeps more than 2 hours. You usually sleep from about 11pm to 5 or 6am, sometimes 7am. We are really glad that you are doing so well at sleep. Your mom likes to feed you when you wake in the morning, then go back to sleep until 9 or 10am. I usually get up about 7 and stay up. It gives me some quiet time in the morning to get some things done. That is, now that I am not going to work I get up at 7, if I were going to school that day, I would be rising about 4am anyway. But I am on paternity leave, and don't have to go back to work until April 30.
You rolled over for the first time yesterday! I was so surprised that I didn't get it on video, and tried to get you to do it again. So far, you haven't repeated the feat, but I'm sure you will. I think it was a skill thing, because when you did it, it didn't seem to take much effort. When you don't do it, you struggle until you get frustrated and have a tantrum. I think you are strong enough to do it at any time, you just haven't learned the right way to focus your strength.
You have been getting better at grabbing things with your hands, too. You are sort of starting to be able to grab something on purpose. Before, you could hold something we put in your hand, but now you are becoming able to reach and grab something. If you get a hold of anything, you pull it straight to your mouth. I guess that your mouth is your best investigative tool right now. You seem to have more control over your mouth than anything else.
We made a fun video yesterday, for your cousin Sara's birthday. It's posted at this link:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=5182724151536713629&hl=en
Well, now you've been asleep for almost 2 hours. I'm going to let you sleep, you've had a big day, and you will be much better tomorrow if you've rested.
Love, aba

The Smiler

Right now you are in your crib watching the mobile. You've been in a really good mood this morning and smiling a lot. You have the sweetest smile. And the sweetest voice, when you are not yelling. I am in the other room listening to you, and you are calling your contentment with the mobile. I am a little upset with you from last night. You wouldn't take the bottle of mom's milk from me. You did let your mom feed it to you. So, I am hoping we will get over that and I can feed you later today. Mom is out on her Saturday morning travels right now. She teaches a class on Saturdays and you and i hang out together.
You have changed a lot in the last month. Of course, you've gotten bigger. But you used to hit things with your hands, but you didn't have much control over it. Now you can reach for things and grab them a little. Then you seem to have trouble letting go sometimes. But you are taking an interest in things you can see a lot more, too. Also, you are beginning to sleep longer at night. Not every night, but last night for instance, you slept from midnight until 7am, which really pleased your mom and i, so we were able to get rest, too.
now you are sitting on my lap. We are going to go for a walk to get the newspaper soon. You are just a little angel right now.
Ok, signing off. I won't wait another month before the next post, I promise.
love, aba